It is natural for human beings to desire love; as the saying goes, ‘love makes the world goes round’. Though it may not be true in the physical or scientific aspect, it may carry some truth for humans who live their lives daily in relationships.
Humans are created to have interaction with one another. There is always some connection between human beings. Special relationships are found between humans of opposite gender as in a love relationship like marriage. There is also the family bond which is part of a loving relationship. No one is an orphan as everyone is connected or linked with another through love. Humans are not meant to live their lives alone; there is an innate need in humans to interact with one another and to express their emotional needs to be fulfilled such as care, joy, sorrow, pain, sacrifice and so on.
Men and women can do many things to inspire or build up love between them, and to avoid the many prevailing problems that tear down their relationship today like financial difficulties, addiction, infidelity, arrogance and abuses. Often times, the solution is very simple and plentiful. You only need to make time for love to grow in you and in your spouse or loved ones.
Every person in a relationship has taken on the responsibility to work on the relationship which will keep the involved parties together or apart. Each party has a role to play by caring for the other person instead of adopting a selfish and arrogant attitude. Wives can do simple tasks like preparing a good meal for their husbands where husbands can surprise their wives with something they like, no matter how small or simple the gift may be. Women are more emotional creatures and welcome any kind gesture from their spouse. Even some new and sexy lingerie can encourage a little more romance in the relationship and put it on a more solid platform.
Today, marriage vows are hard to keep but not impossible if both parties stay focused on their vows, taking them to heart and commitment. It is both parties’ responsibilities to deliver the vows to the other party. Love is about up building the other spouse and not the self.
There are many ways to keep your love aflame for your loved ones.
Honesty in Love
Honesty is the best policy as the adage goes. Both parties need to accept each other as they are without trying to change the other. It is hard to keep up a pretention or a charade. When you are honest in love, you will feel free to be yourself and you will find true love because you will attract those who enjoy what they see or know of you.
All humans know and must learn to accept that no one is perfect; not even the self. So, how can one demand or insist perfection from another? Only God is perfect. We can only work to be the best as happily as we can so that we can enjoy our lives with our loved ones.
After a break up, most of us still want to get back with our exes. Here I will try my best to give some tips how to start this process.
1- Stay strong - Keep your head up
It is never good after a break up to act depressed. I know it is hard, and that you are very sad and feel like crying whenever a love song plays on the radio. It's normal, it's human. But you need to be strong now. Do not show signs of weakness, your ex didn't go out with you in the past because you were weak did she? No, there is no need to act weak now.
2- Take some time away, some time off
Now after every breakup, all your friends are there for you. They all tell you how much better you are than he or she is. They tell you they can hook you up with someone else in no time. And of course they are your friends, that's what they are supposed to do. But all you really want is to get back with her/him. So take some time alone, after all the problems are between you and your ex, not between you, your ex and your friends. This is a crucial step to get back with your ex. Take some time to think things over, also give your ex this time. Maybe all you needed was a little break, long enough for you to start missing each other again.
5- Keep it real
This is i think the most important step. She is your ex, face it. Try and remember the good times you had together. Now also try and remember the bad times you had together. Remember why you liked her, why your guys were together. It is common that we make up a perfect image of our ex, and when we are back together, the relationship fails because it is not what we expected. Do not fool yourself. If she or he is worth it, then fight for it, like you've never fought before. But please, do fight for who he/she really is, not for who you want her/him to be.
Language of Lust by Michael Fiore