It is natural for human beings to desire love; as the saying goes, ‘love makes the world goes round’. Though it may not be true in the physical or scientific aspect, it may carry some truth for humans who live their lives daily in relationships.
Humans are created to have interaction with one another. There is always some connection between human beings. Special relationships are found between humans of opposite gender as in a love relationship like marriage. There is also the family bond which is part of a loving relationship. No one is an orphan as everyone is connected or linked with another through love. Humans are not meant to live their lives alone; there is an innate need in humans to interact with one another and to express their emotional needs to be fulfilled such as care, joy, sorrow, pain, sacrifice and so on.
Men and women can do many things to inspire or build up love between them, and to avoid the many prevailing problems that tear down their relationship today like financial difficulties, addiction, infidelity, arrogance and abuses. Often times, the solution is very simple and plentiful. You only need to make time for love to grow in you and in your spouse or loved ones.
Every person in a relationship has taken on the responsibility to work on the relationship which will keep the involved parties together or apart. Each party has a role to play by caring for the other person instead of adopting a selfish and arrogant attitude. Wives can do simple tasks like preparing a good meal for their husbands where husbands can surprise their wives with something they like, no matter how small or simple the gift may be. Women are more emotional creatures and welcome any kind gesture from their spouse. Even some new and sexy lingerie can encourage a little more romance in the relationship and put it on a more solid platform.
Today, marriage vows are hard to keep but not impossible if both parties stay focused on their vows, taking them to heart and commitment. It is both parties’ responsibilities to deliver the vows to the other party. Love is about up building the other spouse and not the self.
There are many ways to keep your love aflame for your loved ones.
Honesty in Love
Honesty is the best policy as the adage goes. Both parties need to accept each other as they are without trying to change the other. It is hard to keep up a pretention or a charade. When you are honest in love, you will feel free to be yourself and you will find true love because you will attract those who enjoy what they see or know of you.
All humans know and must learn to accept that no one is perfect; not even the self. So, how can one demand or insist perfection from another? Only God is perfect. We can only work to be the best as happily as we can so that we can enjoy our lives with our loved ones.
Break ups rarely happen on mutual agreements and most of the times one party is left unhappy. The person who's dumped quite obviously wants to get back to the ex but the thought of actually getting it done may seem daunting. I'm here to tell you that you can get your ex back but if you find it challenging, your solution may lay in writing a letter to get your ex back. In a world of emails and text messages writing a letter may seem unfamiliar to some, but no emails or text messages can ever replace the sort of personal touch that goes into writing an actual physical letter.
Calling your ex after a break is not a good idea, you are trying to convey a message to your ex and exchanging conversation can easily have you going off topics. You are still in love with your ex and hearing her or his voice could easily break you down. It could have you completely surrendering to your need to tell your ex you still love him or her. The last thing you want is to seem needy because that will drive off your ex. Write a letter, because when your ex receives it and starts reading, you have his or her attention all to yourself and your ex will digest all your words before he or she decides what to say or do.
Be very casual with the letter and write to your ex as if you are writing to an old friend. Accept the fact that you've broken up and you'll be able to admit to your faults. Don't just say you are sorry but describe to your ex why you've messed up and how you see things more clearly now. Keep in mind that you are not to make any promises, you want earn your ex's trust slowly and the last thing you want is to tell your ex that he or she should trust you at face value. A letter carries the smell, the touch, a personal touch of a real human being and for that, writing a letter to get your ex back is the best way to reach your ex's heart.
Language of Lust by Michael Fiore