It is natural for human beings to desire love; as the saying goes, ‘love makes the world goes round’. Though it may not be true in the physical or scientific aspect, it may carry some truth for humans who live their lives daily in relationships.
Humans are created to have interaction with one another. There is always some connection between human beings. Special relationships are found between humans of opposite gender as in a love relationship like marriage. There is also the family bond which is part of a loving relationship. No one is an orphan as everyone is connected or linked with another through love. Humans are not meant to live their lives alone; there is an innate need in humans to interact with one another and to express their emotional needs to be fulfilled such as care, joy, sorrow, pain, sacrifice and so on.
Men and women can do many things to inspire or build up love between them, and to avoid the many prevailing problems that tear down their relationship today like financial difficulties, addiction, infidelity, arrogance and abuses. Often times, the solution is very simple and plentiful. You only need to make time for love to grow in you and in your spouse or loved ones.
Every person in a relationship has taken on the responsibility to work on the relationship which will keep the involved parties together or apart. Each party has a role to play by caring for the other person instead of adopting a selfish and arrogant attitude. Wives can do simple tasks like preparing a good meal for their husbands where husbands can surprise their wives with something they like, no matter how small or simple the gift may be. Women are more emotional creatures and welcome any kind gesture from their spouse. Even some new and sexy lingerie can encourage a little more romance in the relationship and put it on a more solid platform.
Today, marriage vows are hard to keep but not impossible if both parties stay focused on their vows, taking them to heart and commitment. It is both parties’ responsibilities to deliver the vows to the other party. Love is about up building the other spouse and not the self.
There are many ways to keep your love aflame for your loved ones.
Honesty in Love
Honesty is the best policy as the adage goes. Both parties need to accept each other as they are without trying to change the other. It is hard to keep up a pretention or a charade. When you are honest in love, you will feel free to be yourself and you will find true love because you will attract those who enjoy what they see or know of you.
All humans know and must learn to accept that no one is perfect; not even the self. So, how can one demand or insist perfection from another? Only God is perfect. We can only work to be the best as happily as we can so that we can enjoy our lives with our loved ones.
At first glance, horse racing form can appear tricky. It's full of all sorts of information that must be important, otherwise it wouldn't be printed would it? Understanding horse racing form is one of those things that you should spend a bit of time on so that you can begin to see which factors are important in the races you choose to bet on.
Most form cards will show a series of figures and letters for the horse's recent results, with the most recent results first, such as:
A dash will separate results between seasons.
In this case, the horse has come second in its two outings this season. Last season it came 7th, 5th, unseated its rider and wasn't placed in the top 9 in the race.
These figures can be useful but you also need to know a few other things to help guide you...
These are signified by the letter 'D' on the race card. If a horse has won at the same distance as the current race then there is a good chance that it can win again at the same distance. Some horses are sprinters whereas others prefer longer races that require more stamina. If a horse is constantly changing the distance it runs at this could be a sign that the trainer hasn't found the horse's preferred distance. Of course, it could also be a sign that the trainer is placing the horse in a race that is a distance it doesn't like just to lower the handicap mark - this kind of inside information isn't easy to come by.
These are signified by the letter 'C' on the race card. Each race course is different - some are relatively flat, others undulate more. There are different surfaces at the various all weather courses. Some horses show a preference for certain race courses and this can mean that they stand a better chance of running well at these locations. If your chosen horse has won at the distance as well, that can be a good omen.
All weather courses just have "standard" going but regular events held on grass will have a forecast for the going for the race. This is basically a factor of how much rain there has been recently. Firm means exactly what it says - there is little give in the ground. Soft means there has been some rain and the ground is - as you'd expect - softer. Heavy has seen even more rain and many horses will literally find it heavy going although some love running in what is almost a mud bath.
A bit like school, races are graded by class. If a horse has moved up or down a class of race, this is likely to affect its form. If it's moved up, there is a good chance that it will take a few races before it gets used to the stiffer competition. If it's moved down a class, this could be a sign that it will have a better chance of winning against what it should see as weaker competition.
There are a few other factors that need to be taken into account. The number of days since a horse last ran can be a useful thing to look at. In the same way as athletes, it takes a while for horses to recover from the exertion of a race and get fit for their next outing. This varies from horse to horse. There could also be a reason for a large gap since the last run - for instance, the horse could have been injured and has spent time recovering. Sometimes these factors will be noted in the description on the race card, other times you'll have to do the detective work yourself.
Oral Fixation by Michael Fiore