It is natural for human beings to desire love; as the saying goes, ‘love makes the world goes round’. Though it may not be true in the physical or scientific aspect, it may carry some truth for humans who live their lives daily in relationships.
Humans are created to have interaction with one another. There is always some connection between human beings. Special relationships are found between humans of opposite gender as in a love relationship like marriage. There is also the family bond which is part of a loving relationship. No one is an orphan as everyone is connected or linked with another through love. Humans are not meant to live their lives alone; there is an innate need in humans to interact with one another and to express their emotional needs to be fulfilled such as care, joy, sorrow, pain, sacrifice and so on.
Men and women can do many things to inspire or build up love between them, and to avoid the many prevailing problems that tear down their relationship today like financial difficulties, addiction, infidelity, arrogance and abuses. Often times, the solution is very simple and plentiful. You only need to make time for love to grow in you and in your spouse or loved ones.
Every person in a relationship has taken on the responsibility to work on the relationship which will keep the involved parties together or apart. Each party has a role to play by caring for the other person instead of adopting a selfish and arrogant attitude. Wives can do simple tasks like preparing a good meal for their husbands where husbands can surprise their wives with something they like, no matter how small or simple the gift may be. Women are more emotional creatures and welcome any kind gesture from their spouse. Even some new and sexy lingerie can encourage a little more romance in the relationship and put it on a more solid platform.
Today, marriage vows are hard to keep but not impossible if both parties stay focused on their vows, taking them to heart and commitment. It is both parties’ responsibilities to deliver the vows to the other party. Love is about up building the other spouse and not the self.
There are many ways to keep your love aflame for your loved ones.
Honesty in Love
Honesty is the best policy as the adage goes. Both parties need to accept each other as they are without trying to change the other. It is hard to keep up a pretention or a charade. When you are honest in love, you will feel free to be yourself and you will find true love because you will attract those who enjoy what they see or know of you.
All humans know and must learn to accept that no one is perfect; not even the self. So, how can one demand or insist perfection from another? Only God is perfect. We can only work to be the best as happily as we can so that we can enjoy our lives with our loved ones.
Do wonder what the signs of true love look like? Have you wondered if your boyfriend is in love with you? Do you think he might be in love with you but he has never said those words to you directly? If you are falling in love with your boyfriend, you surely want to know what his feelings are for you. Here are some of the signs to look for.
Is He Showing You Off?
When guys are getting serious feelings for their girlfriend, they want to show her off to their family and closest friends. There are two reasons they do this. First, they are proud of her and want the world to see her. Second, they want to get a "reading" back from their friends and family to see if they approve of her and he wants their feedback.
Does He Go Out of His Way to Make You Happy?
Sometimes guys will say they love a woman because they feel obligated to say it or because they want something from her - usually sex. However, you should gauge your boyfriend's feelings for you by his actions more than his words. Because of how guys are socialized, some have a difficult time expressing their true feelings in words. So, look for the signs of true love in his actions because that is what really counts in the end anyway.
Language of Lust by Michael Fiore