It is natural for human beings to desire love; as the saying goes, ‘love makes the world goes round’. Though it may not be true in the physical or scientific aspect, it may carry some truth for humans who live their lives daily in relationships.
Humans are created to have interaction with one another. There is always some connection between human beings. Special relationships are found between humans of opposite gender as in a love relationship like marriage. There is also the family bond which is part of a loving relationship. No one is an orphan as everyone is connected or linked with another through love. Humans are not meant to live their lives alone; there is an innate need in humans to interact with one another and to express their emotional needs to be fulfilled such as care, joy, sorrow, pain, sacrifice and so on.
Men and women can do many things to inspire or build up love between them, and to avoid the many prevailing problems that tear down their relationship today like financial difficulties, addiction, infidelity, arrogance and abuses. Often times, the solution is very simple and plentiful. You only need to make time for love to grow in you and in your spouse or loved ones.
Every person in a relationship has taken on the responsibility to work on the relationship which will keep the involved parties together or apart. Each party has a role to play by caring for the other person instead of adopting a selfish and arrogant attitude. Wives can do simple tasks like preparing a good meal for their husbands where husbands can surprise their wives with something they like, no matter how small or simple the gift may be. Women are more emotional creatures and welcome any kind gesture from their spouse. Even some new and sexy lingerie can encourage a little more romance in the relationship and put it on a more solid platform.
Today, marriage vows are hard to keep but not impossible if both parties stay focused on their vows, taking them to heart and commitment. It is both parties’ responsibilities to deliver the vows to the other party. Love is about up building the other spouse and not the self.
There are many ways to keep your love aflame for your loved ones.
Honesty in Love
Honesty is the best policy as the adage goes. Both parties need to accept each other as they are without trying to change the other. It is hard to keep up a pretention or a charade. When you are honest in love, you will feel free to be yourself and you will find true love because you will attract those who enjoy what they see or know of you.
All humans know and must learn to accept that no one is perfect; not even the self. So, how can one demand or insist perfection from another? Only God is perfect. We can only work to be the best as happily as we can so that we can enjoy our lives with our loved ones.
Relationships are the fragile bonds that must be continually nurtured and respected in order to grow. Both partners in the relationship provide value for the other in a balance that keeps the relationship alive. When the balance is broken that's when problems start to happen. If this unbalance continues without being fixed the relationship will eventually fall apart. This can leave one side of the relationship looking for a ways to resolve things and find the balance again. It can be tough, hard work, and even a lonely task, but there are ways to restore the balance you once had.
Do Something Else For Awhile
This is not the best time for you to be alone. Go out and do something! Get out of the house, hang out with your friends, and find some other forms of entertainment in your life. The idea here is to keep yourself occupied so you can better find yourself. This will also create new topics of conversation with your ex as you will have new stories to tell.
Just Be You
You and your ex were both attracted to each other for certain reasons. Brooding, feeling sorry for yourself, and detaching yourself from your friends and family because of a back break up was definitely not one of the reasons. Determine what it was about you that made them fall in love with you. Find out your qualities that made them attracted to you and then accentuate those qualities as you try to be the best person you can be. This "new you" will rub off on everyone else and is one of the best ways to attract your ex back since it is authentic.
Language of Desire by Michael Fiore